It is this desire to explore new levels of pleasure that has men hoping to find the elusive "P-Spot." The P-Spot, which is a common term for the spot you can hit while giving anal sex to a man when your penis or strap-on or toy, hits the receiver's prostate gland in such a way that they are able to experience orgasm-like sensations and even ejaculation.

I am here to tell you that it is absolutely a real thing and, based on the feedback from my partners, VERY worth your time to explore! If you or your partner has previously been unsuccessful in finding your p-spot or enjoying anal play at all, I encourage you to restart the journey at a very slow pace. Nothing about anal penetration of any kind should be rushed and you should never underestimate the necessity for high quality lubricant and lots of it! Start nice and slow with just a finger, and make sure to lube inside and out with your finger before you begin to use a toy.

It takes some practice to get your partner at just the right position to hit their p-spot while you're wearing a strap-on, especially if they significantly taller or shorter than you. Be sure to use excellent communication skills to find out what they need and where you need them to be in order to line yourselves up correctly. And remember to start slow and have fun!